The only people I know who struggle with mother’s day are:
1. hate their mother
2. come from a split home and had the competition for attention/affection/acceptance from mother and stepmother
3. were abandoned by the mother, so have no one to look to
But adopting a female relative for that purpose would be healthier than demanding we end the holiday.
Or if you lost your mother on the day itself. We have cousins that fall into that category.