I’m not exactly sure where you’re coming from, with your question.
If a woman is the best available conservative Presidential candidate, then of course I advocate it.
The same is true for parenting. Some fathers have no alternative, you know, short of remarrying. That doesn’t happen at the drop of a hat, either, not if you have half a brain in your head. Not these days.
Quite clear:
if one says that women shouldn’t be excluded from areas from which they have been excluded to this point, one should correspondingly say that men in turn should not be excluded from areas from which they have been excluded to this point.