Hardly. Step one is common sense; you should have a majority of your people supporting your leaving shouldn't you? Steps two and three come from James Madison. Step four about waving bye-bye was license on my part.
The simple fact and truth is that in 1860-61 secession was not precluded under the Constitution.
It turns out unilateral secession was, as the court ruled in 1869. And BTW, Chief Justice Chase also endorsed steps two and three in his decision.
That made for lively debate, but not application of law.
Which is why it took the 1869 court decision to set it to rest.
We are a nation of laws, not of men. The law, for good or ill, is determinant. Can we ignore it, or break it? Certainly. But if we choose to live by the law we must necessarily be bound by it, and accept the consequences of running afoul of it.
Common sense is not necessarily the equivalent of law.