After their “make-overs” they all look the same: like cheap strippers. They get horrible hair extensions, spray-tans, fake boobs and really hideously tacky dresses! Not to mention that slightly melted surprised look from the botox, fillers, injectibles, etc...I smoke and drink but I also am religious about skin care, drink lots of water and eat well. I always get guessed at looking younger and get compliments on my skin, however I can’t always walk around with make-up on and be dressed nicely. The “before” pictures where probably taken at 7:00 a.m.! What the hell do men expect?! Y’all have lived/loved women haven’t you? ;-)
This is one reason why *some* men end up taking mistresses. Women fail to understand the visual nature of men. Most men *like* it when a woman puts in a little effort to look “hot.”
Let me ask a question: why do most women get all dolled up on their wedding day? To look beautiful, right? So, subjectively, just by putting in the effort on your wedding day, it is possible for you to be MORE beautiful some times than others. What man in his right mind would actually PREFER his wife to choose the less beautiful option all the time? Very few.
I know, I know - women don’t have the time every day to get all dolled up. Housewives has chores and kids and blah blah blah.
But I’ll tell you want: husbands go to work where some women make the effort day in and day out to look “put together” in the workplace. As I said, men are visual. They look at that and... well... you get the idea.
There is nothing wrong with getting dolled up. You don’t have to dress in an evening gown every day, but some basic maintenance can go a long way. Same goes for guys.
Finally - for the record - I think my wife is hot, even when she isn’t put together. Make no mistake, though, when it comes to downright physical attraction, it’s *usually* not when she looks like she just woke up.