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The Goldilocks Syndrome (Meghan McCain praises Hillary)
The Daily Beast ^ | 2009-11-09

Posted on 11/09/2009 8:59:20 AM PST by rabscuttle385

Based on the media’s treatment of Hillary Clinton and Sarah Palin, Meghan McCain asks: Will we ever have a female politician who is good enough to lead?

BY MEGHAN MCCAIN

I have admired Hillary Clinton for years. Though we disagree on nearly everything politically, I respect the barriers she has broken as a woman in American politics, and what she’s had to go through to get there. Those “18 million cracks in the glass ceiling” will hopefully make other women’s journeys in politics easier in the future, but sometimes I am not so sure.

During her years in the White House, Hillary Clinton redefined what it meant to be first lady. She was involved with policy meetings and decisions her husband made—something that is still controversial to this day. Hillary was either a pioneer or overstepped her boundaries as first lady, depending on who you talk to. Since leaving the White House, she became the first former first lady to be elected to the Senate and the first appointed to another administration’s Cabinet. Admittedly, it has been a complicated and somewhat controversial first year as secretary of State. Then again, to be a powerful woman in politics is to be controversial.

Perhaps the most famous incident in her tenure was the day she snapped at a student in the Congo after a question was mistranslated and she was asked what President Clinton thought about an issue rather than President Obama. “My husband is not the secretary of State, I am,” she roared back. “You ask me my opinion, I will give you my opinion, I won’t be channeling my husband.”

When I first saw the video, I thought she was great and reacted as strongly as any man would. After all, she is the secretary of State and for someone to ask her spouse’s opinion is ridiculous, even if the translator misspoke. In retrospect, I wish she had kept her cool, because the incident only seemed to confirm what misogynists have said for years—women are too unstable to hold positions of power.

I myself straddle the line between political commentator and a member of the political universe (in the sense that I have campaigned and know what it’s like to be in the trenches when you’re under fire) and it’s not easy being a woman. But it’s a dilemma that I and every woman of my generation face. We want to be involved in politics—perhaps even run for office—but it’s a steep price to pay. One day there will be a woman president, we are all told as little girls. You too can be a congresswoman or senator. But the reality of today is that to do so, you have to give up so much, in a way that is never asked of a man, and I believe running for office has become less and less appealing for women.

In fact, it’s gotten so ugly out there that two of the most prominent women in politics—Hillary Clinton and Sarah Palin—have become verbs: Candidates now regularly get “Hillary Clintoned” or “Sarah Palined” in the media. Misogyny works on both sides of the aisle.

The brutal criticism of Sarah Palin—which will only increase when her memoir comes out—is yet another example of the double standard and cruel treatment of women in politics. Sarah has been attacked for everything from her hair to her clothes to the number of children she gave birth to. Maureen Dowd even nicknamed her “Caribou Barbie.” I can’t even begin to think of what that kind of judgment—criticizing parts of your life that have nothing to do with what you stand for or want to accomplish politically—feels like.

Through it all, the example both Hillary Clinton and Sarah Palin set is so admirable. I respect any woman who will go out there and run for office. Maybe it’s a cliché, but no matter how many differences I may have with a woman politically, there is still a sense of kinship I feel for a woman in politics.

But having seen female candidates attacked on the right and the left, why would any woman my age ever feel inspired to run for office? What kind of example has the media set for my generation of women? I struggle with this. I don’t have ambitions to run for office—I have already done enough campaigning for one lifetime—but I already have a pretty good idea of what it would feel like. I have often wondered how the media would react if it were my brother writing these columns and speaking out on behalf of moderate Republicans. I can pretty much bet that his weight wouldn’t have been an issue.

So yes, Sarah Palin is a woman with five children and her physical appearance is deemed “too beautiful for politics.” And on the other end, Hillary Clinton is criticized for not being beautiful enough, for being “too tough” in the man’s world that she resides.

It seems to me the male-dominated media suffers from a Goldilocks Syndrome that keeps women from shattering the glass ceiling. Worse, I fear it will prevent tomorrow’s female leaders from even seeking office.

This one is too hard. This one is too soft. Who will ever be just right?

Meghan McCain is a columnist for The Daily Beast. Originally from Phoenix, she graduated from Columbia University in 2007. She is a New York Times bestselling children's author, previously wrote for Newsweek magazine, and created the Web site mccainblogette.com.


TOPICS: Politics
KEYWORDS: feminism; hillary; mccainmutiny; mccaintruthfile; mclamesrevenge; meghanmccain; nomanwilllayher; palin; rino; rinoette; tilatequilaslover
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To: rabscuttle385
"Those “18 million cracks in the glass ceiling”"

Yo Meghan, it ever dawn on you that quite a few of those cracks were from Rush and Operation Chaos?
41 posted on 11/09/2009 11:19:19 AM PST by Uncle Ivan (Alea iacta est)
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To: dirtboy
Hillary only 'broke' those barriers because of her marriage, just as the only reason anyone pays a lick of attention to you is because of your parentage. Meanwhile, you despise Sarah Palin, who is an actual self-made woman.

Exactly - perfect response.

42 posted on 11/09/2009 11:21:53 AM PST by WhyisaTexasgirlinPA (Blankety blankety blank)
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To: GeronL
Meghan McCain:


43 posted on 11/09/2009 11:34:38 AM PST by TexasCajun
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To: donna

I’m afraid I don’t understand your question in terms of the article.


44 posted on 11/09/2009 11:35:55 AM PST by Pan_Yan (All gray areas are fabrications.)
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To: stephenjohnbanker; Liz

I beg to differ...... Rep Corrine Brown of Florida with her must hear/see speech “gradulating” Corch Urban Meyers on the BSC championship win last year - she has to be one of the dumbest human beings I’ve ever heard speak publicly.


45 posted on 11/09/2009 11:40:37 AM PST by WhyisaTexasgirlinPA (Blankety blankety blank)
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To: TexasCajun

she is on a downhill slope thats nearly vertical


46 posted on 11/09/2009 11:41:00 AM PST by GeronL (http://tyrannysentinel.blogspot.com .... I am a rogue nobody. One of millions.)
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To: stephenjohnbanker; GeronL; Landru; Liz

RE :”About 10 years ago on C-SPAN........“Mr. Speaker, I rise in opposition to the 4th Amendment to the Constitution! “

Get that clip on youtube. How about Maxine Waters or John Conyers ?


47 posted on 11/09/2009 11:43:24 AM PST by sickoflibs ( "It's not the taxes, the redistribution is the government spending you demand stupid")
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To: RichInOC

The likeness is too creepy...


48 posted on 11/09/2009 11:51:21 AM PST by God'sgrrl (Stand up for the innocent.)
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To: Landru
>doink<

I don't think you hit him hard enough the first time, which is why he keeps coming back for more "doink's". Just give him the damn hammer, and let him whack himself. ;^)


49 posted on 11/09/2009 11:54:41 AM PST by FBD (My carbon footprint is bigger then yours)
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To: Spartan79
"I've often disagreed with Meghan's views..."

hmmmm, you’ve really got a thing for this McCain girl, don’cha?
-do you call out her name at night?

50 posted on 11/09/2009 12:06:41 PM PST by FBD (My carbon footprint is bigger then yours)
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To: rabscuttle385
I wish she had kept her cool, because the incident only seemed to confirm what misogynists have said for years—women are too unstable to hold positions of power.

NO MZ McCain, we think Hillary is too unstable to hold positions of power. YOU are the one to infer her shortcomings onto all womyn.

51 posted on 11/09/2009 12:11:10 PM PST by runninglips (It was just time for this to come to a head.....)
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To: FBD
"I don't think you hit him hard enough the first time, which is why he keeps coming back for more 'doink's'."

HA!!
Not to worry, it was plenty. LOL
We, all of us, must be considerate of the old man & his people; who're, desperately trying to herd we pack of cats colloquially called, "Republicans".
A tough *&* thankless task, y'know.

"Just give him the damn hammer, and let him whack himself."

But I did, I did. LOL

BTW kiddo, was successful Saturday.
Be watching your PO Box, say around Wednesday? ;^)

52 posted on 11/09/2009 12:30:41 PM PST by Landru (Forget the pebble Grasshopper, just leave.)
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To: Landru
woo-hoo Christmas comes early around these parts!

I'll be at the Post office Saturday morning.


53 posted on 11/09/2009 12:36:16 PM PST by FBD (My carbon footprint is bigger then yours)
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To: rabscuttle385

I will defend Hillary. She is a 1000 times smarter than Megn McCain.


54 posted on 11/09/2009 12:39:45 PM PST by sickoflibs ( "It's not the taxes, the redistribution is the government spending you demand stupid")
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To: sickoflibs; GeronL; Liz; stephenjohnbanker
"Get that clip on youtube. How about Maxine Waters or John Conyers?"

Fabulous suggestions, my friend.

And while we're at it?
How 'bout some clips of the the two greatest of all brain-stems, past or present?

I speak of the first one declaring the American flag's on Mars.
The other august statesman who claimed, on the FLOOR of congress no less, slave ship routes were responsible for altering the behavior of Atlantic shark populations?

BWWWWHAAAAAA!!
And the glittering beauty of all this, SoLs?
It's the truth, and, it's on video. ;^) LOL!!

55 posted on 11/09/2009 12:52:56 PM PST by Landru (Forget the pebble Grasshopper, just leave.)
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To: Landru

“The other august statesman who claimed, on the FLOOR of congress no less, slave ship routes were responsible for altering the behavior of Atlantic shark populations?”

Was that Alstee Hastings?


56 posted on 11/09/2009 12:59:06 PM PST by stephenjohnbanker (Support our troops, and vote out the RINO's!)
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To: Landru; writer33

“The other august statesman who claimed, on the FLOOR of congress no less, slave ship routes were responsible for altering the behavior of Atlantic shark populations?”

Rush ran the numbers........it was something like 25,000,000,000 slaves died crossing the ocean ;-)


57 posted on 11/09/2009 1:01:21 PM PST by stephenjohnbanker (Support our troops, and vote out the RINO's!)
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To: stephenjohnbanker
"Was that Alstee Hastings?"

No, I think the buffoon's name was "Major Owens, or something similar. From GA, steph.

"Rush ran the numbers...it was something like 25,000,000,000 slaves died crossing the ocean"

Sounds as accurate as figures heard from zerO's imps & harpies or the GloBull warming fanatics, FTM.

Appears people really like big numbers.
>?<<
If that *theory* is even partially true?
They're in for a real treat.
Wait'll they get their tax billS. LOL

58 posted on 11/09/2009 1:11:47 PM PST by Landru (Forget the pebble Grasshopper, just leave.)
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To: rabscuttle385
I have admired Hillary Clinton for years.

Sorry, MeggieMac, stopped reading right there. What is there to admire about a woman who got to where she is by virtue of her husband becoming POTUS? (A lousy POTUS, at that)

HRC had neither the guts nor the self-respect to leave Bill's cheating butt after he dragged her (and the entire country) through that shameless spectacle.

Yes, yes, yes, I know that since the beginning of time, powerful men have had affairs or long term mistresses on the side. But those men didn't embarrass their wives in such a public fashion. Well, ok, maybe excepting for Henry VIII. It simply isn't done, it's not part of the bargain.

I actually almost feel pity for HRC...she stuck it out with old Billy Boy, only to have her presidential dreams dashed, and left only with an emasculated SOS role.

59 posted on 11/09/2009 1:49:15 PM PST by MaggieCarta (We're all Detroiters now.)
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To: Landru

**shark theme music** needs to be the score for the youtube of this.


60 posted on 11/09/2009 1:58:29 PM PST by GeronL (http://tyrannysentinel.blogspot.com .... I am a rogue nobody. One of millions.)
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