That’s good and I’m glad to hear it. And I wouldn’t want to say anything specific about you and your family. I can only say what I’ve found out elsewhere and it may not apply to you (or anyone else, either). But, there are some people who do have a tendency to suppress things that bother them, and they actually do want to be “okay” on things, but they let an underlying thing (or two or three and so on) build up over a period of time and then it explodes. I only say that because I remember one person telling me that this is how it happens with her. She pretty much admitted to putting those kinds of things away quickly and everything was back to normal. But, she also admitted to holding it in and ignoring it for long periods of time until a certain number of these things accumulated, and then it was “boom”...
But, again, that’s just something that one person said...
Yeah, well that is how I am with everyone else. Things can build up, build up. and then it explodes.. I can yell and cuss my heart out. When there is a trainwreck, it is usually a pretty good one. LOL
but it is never like that with her. I am not sure how to explain it. She is almost 21. I am 23. We took all of this on very young. have two girls (twins). I find myself looking up to her. I don’t want say like a mother figure. but I would say with the exact same kind of respect. I think I have cursed directly at her once, and I felt so horrible about it that I couldn’t sleep that night. As for her. she is so cool. so easy and so fun to be around. and when she sometimes gets angry, it never lasts very long. and she wants to make up quickly. I spend time worrying about things while she is so positive and optimistic.
so we mesh together really well.