[ladyjane]

the greatest aphrodisiac a woman can offer a man is not her appearance or particular skills, but the sense that she and she alone knows him, understands him deeply, and with all that thinks he's the most wonderful man in the world.

Women can fall head-over-heels in love with a totally ugly man. It's rare that a man will do so - regardless of her persuasive intimacy skills.

[ladyjane]

Not that I would know personally, of course.