Sorry Charles. I figured you’ve dealt with enough depravity to get the difference but I thought just maybe I caught you in a mistake some innocent pastor might make! :-)
Some "innocent" pastor?? Believe me, any pastor who's "been in the business" for even a few years has seen sin in all kinds of forms! And "shacking-up" is probably the most common type of public, manifest sin we have to deal with these days.
Pastors see it all, understand the depths of human depravity better than anyone, and so we're not shocked by anything.
I would say policemen, the same thing as pastors.