Both sides can take blame.
I have seen idiotic male freinds cheat on sweet wonderful women and I would even grant men are the more frequent abusers.
—But—
I have also seen Mr. Nice guy get married to sweet young long-haired beauty who immediately porks on 50 pounds, start screaming and swearing like a sailor, and cuts off her hair because all her (girl) freinds tell her “it’s so cute!”
Then hubby wonders what happened to the petite young long-haired beauty and how did he end up married to a short fat guy.
Then she takes him to the cleaners in court and THEN loses 50 pounds and starts dating, and wonders why she stays single- let’s face it women- we can see whats coming by then.
Admit it girls- this has happened to your friend (or you)
Sometimes Dr. Laura is an idiot. Some men are just pigs and perverts, and they hide it very well from their unsuspecting wives and families.