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Both sides can take blame.

I have seen idiotic male freinds cheat on sweet wonderful women and I would even grant men are the more frequent abusers.

—But—

I have also seen Mr. Nice guy get married to sweet young long-haired beauty who immediately porks on 50 pounds, start screaming and swearing like a sailor, and cuts off her hair because all her (girl) freinds tell her “it’s so cute!”

Then hubby wonders what happened to the petite young long-haired beauty and how did he end up married to a short fat guy.

Then she takes him to the cleaners in court and THEN loses 50 pounds and starts dating, and wonders why she stays single- let’s face it women- we can see whats coming by then.

Admit it girls- this has happened to your friend (or you)

I will 100% guarantee that Eliot Spitzer NEVER thought he was "cheating on his wife." I have no doubt that he loved his wife and probably still had a nice sex life with her. But he had a secret, perverted urge to have sex with tiny young girls. Maybe even saw the whores to keep himself from being tempted by his own daughters. This is a pathology, not a simple desire to "go get what the wife isn't giving you." Silda Spitzer could not magically turn herself into a tiny young girl!

Sometimes Dr. Laura is an idiot. Some men are just pigs and perverts, and they hide it very well from their unsuspecting wives and families.