The proper way to cook a Lobster is to steam it. Anywho, in all the years I've been eating Lobsters I never found a nerve in one. Maybe that's because they have no cerebral cortex.
You have to try a grilled lobster!!!!!!!!
You've clearly never been to Maine.
I have cooked many lobster and crab in my life. I always steam my lobster and boil my crab. I was told by several people that the lobsters scream when they are put in the pot, but I have not heard any protest to this day. I think I will purchase a lobster soon and give in a warm steam bath and a butter massage. Now Im drooling like Homer Simpson did when he ate Pinchy.