I note that you describe yourself as a "non-religious" conservative person - presumably that means that you don't really care for the institution of marriage, just the sleeping arrangements. Usually one finds more liberal girl friends who will settle for "intimacy without committment relationships" than conservative ones.
No, I'm looking for marriage, and not just someone to sleep around with. For someone who's not a believer I am basically Judeo-Christian in my values, though yes, I do believe in sex outside of marriage.
No, he's a real nice guy. In my opinion, sincere and caring, not like you are thinking at all. And he WANTS to like Christmas, that's big points right there!