Well, sodomy IS a UCMJ offense. Unfortunately, that applies to men with women as well as men with men. I'd like to see sodomy only defined as sexual relations between men (or women), and vigorously prosecuted. However, the particular, ahem, methodology of sexual expression between an adult consenting man and an adult consenting woman, is completely private and no business of the government.*
Scroll below to see what I mean. Warning! Adult content.
*In other words, a bj from your wife is considered sodomy in the UCMJ, and if you're in the military you could be court martialed for receiving one.
*In other words, a bj from your wife is considered sodomy in the UCMJ, and if you're in the military you could be court martialed for receiving one. Yes, but when was the last time a heterosexual military person got busted for a bj by his wife?
It's always the homos sticking their members through glory holes in public bathrooms.