I was thinking about your response.
I think the thing(s) that have caused us to stop thinking about who each other is, is we are both busy with so many other important things. All three kids have extra ciricular activities, I have Boy Scouts, Church, and work (shift work/OT schedules) commitments, she (my wife) has school, driving kids, and regular house duties to do.
I think that both of us have become so busy with life that our interest in each other has taken a back seat.
The problem I see is elliminating these activities. Aside from Boy Scouts (which I think teaches the boys alot), I think all these activities are needed. As far as Boy Scouts goes, if I wasn't involved, I would miss out on some fun times with my boys.
We are definately not the most overworked parents around, I just think that at this point in our family, we are busy with the normal things a good parent does.
Your advice to rediscover who she is, is good advise. Thank you.
I picked up on this one by post #37 :o)
BTW I am always better at analyzing other peoples stuff than I am my own...Maybe its like Dr. Ruth...she's an expert in sex but probably never got..