[ScubieNuc]

You have no qualms about asking 100,000 complete strangers about your marital problems when you haven't even discussed it with your wife."

I have discussed the "bedroom issues" with her, but have gotten no where.

Do you honestly think I should tell her that I have been feeling like pursueing people that have shown interest in me? Two of her friends are going through, and finishing up divorses. She is overweight and can't seem to lose it. If I told her something like that, she would always assume, whenever I was late fishing or coming home, or whatever, that I was out pursueing. That would be a loss of trust that would be on her mind forever. I would rather "talk" to anonymous people and get it off of my chest, and retain her trust.

[sweetliberty]

"Do you honestly think I should tell her that I have been feeling like pursueing people that have shown interest in me?"

Yes. If she loves you, it might actually be a wake up call for her...as long as you don't tell her in a threatening manner.