[HairOfTheDog]

Ok - I say inefficient, it could just be called complex.
Sometimes it's fun to figure out complex things :~D

I heard an axiom once that I think is generally true.
Men want sex as a way to achieve a feeling of intimacy.
Women need a feeling of intimacy in order to want sex.

[ScubieNuc]

"Men want sex as a way to achieve a feeling of intimacy. Women need a feeling of intimacy in order to want sex."

Another one that I find so true is....

Men marry women assuming that that won't change, and
women marry men assuming that they can change them.