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Take a vacation to Vegas, just you and her. But give it a twist. Take separate flights, and start out in separate rooms.

Then "pretend" to meet in the lounge and "pretend" to have a steamy illicit affair.

Dress differently than usual, make your fantasy whatever you want: you're an up-and-coming poker player, she's an out-of-work cocktail waitress, whatever. Play it to the hilt. When you're together, don't talk about anything from real life.

Spice things up. Get to know each other all over again.

I appreciate the idea, but it has an eery feel to it. Kind of like a warm up to an affair. An affair is actually something I don't want to be more inclined to do.

I will take the idea of spicing things up to heart.

Thanks

That is a COOL idea!
I think I'll do something like that on my next vacation with hubby.

Take a vacation to Vegas, just you and her. But give it a twist. Take separate flights, and start out in separate rooms. Then "pretend" to meet in the lounge and "pretend" to have a steamy illicit affair. Dress differently than usual, make your fantasy whatever you want: you're an up-and-coming poker player, she's an out-of-work cocktail waitress, whatever. Play it to the hilt.

That reminds me of an "All in the Family" episode when Gloria came home with a short brunette wig she had borrowed from a friend. The new look got Meathead all excited and they went up to their bedroom. When Gloria came out of the bathroom with her negligee on but without the brunette wig, Meathead asked her if she could put the wig back on.

Gloria then burst into tears and locked herself in the bathroom crying about how Meathead was a sicko who wanted to have an affair with another woman without having to feel guilty about cheating on his wife.