> they have made a choice
Do you really believe one can choose wether to be homo or hetero? I'm hetero and it's absolutely clear to me that I don't have that choice and never had it. If you truely believe what you wrote there, my advice to you would be to sit down in a calm moment, be honest to yourself and think the unthinkable.
Done, sorry you feel it isn't a choice you make.
Excuses like God made me that way don't fly.
I don't hate gays, but you can't convince me that this isn't a perverse behavior that didn't have its origin in sexual gratification.
You can still love the sinner without loving the sin, but don't expect me to accept the sin as a normal thing that I should accept and encourage others to engage in.