What is truly mean spirited is to tear down someone because of their strong Christian faith. This seems to apply well to many on this thread... (as they claim compassion!)
The Episcopal church has done a great job of stopping the "mean spirited" Christians. Now they have an adulterer, actively homosexual, bishop. They left the Christian faith (at least they actively preach/teach against it) because the "mean spirited" people were beaten down and stifled.
I have not been rude to anyone on this thread.
I stand by a private school's right to expel anyone they chose. But I also stand by my opinion that it harms a girl that needs help.