Well, I know for a fact that when (some) women get together, especially after a few margaritas, they let loose way more than guys do. Some of the things we talk about would make most men blush.
OK folks, I must hang out with crazy people ;). And I won't go into detail, but all I can say is...be grateful you aren't in the dating scene anymore. There are men who, erm, want to drive Harleys when they are still falling off the tricycle. IOW, the are rotten in bed, but think if they do THIS, they'll be great! And I lay it squarely on the doorstep of porn.
What rintense said is true....whether it be in person, on the phone or on the net, when women let loose, it is AMAZING what comes out....and that is a major complaint I've heard.
Lastly, guys...
You wanna be the greatest lover on the planet?
Walk away from the TV and the monitor and pick up what the woman in your life is reading. Or go hang out on some of the chat forums that discuss these books. Call it what you may; bodice ripper, Housewife porn, romance novel...whatever. THAT is what her real fantasys are.
To this day, I'm amazed that men watch what they do, and ignore the obvious.