Finally, a voice of reason. I would no more pick out a firearm for a lady than select her shoes. It's up to her to select her personal defense whether it's pepper spray or a assault weapon.
The lady has to go to a gun store and shoot the rentals before she can make a logical choice. She has to find something that fits her hand. She has to have the safety and slide lock positioned where she can reach them.
Most people have enough money to support a new lifestyle and firearms are exactly that. Practicing takes time but at least it's fun.
Last note, a firearm shouldn't be kept in a purse or any other baggage. My own personal opinion is if she's going to use it for personal defense it should be concealed under her clothing at all times. There are enough women fashions that make this possible.
Geat advice -- thanks guys.
I wanted to be able to at least give her guidance -- what if she picks a pea-shooter? And she is the type that wants to make an intelligent decision so I need to provide parameters and a selection framework (really!)
FR rocks! I am tempted to post the same thing on my non-de-plume over on DU, but I think I would get tombstoned.