You said that so well that I had to quote most of it.
You also made it clear that throll threads would be a lot more fun if they went the sort of direction you describe and turned into interesting intellectual discussion rather than flame baiting.
Bookfinders is a good find, thanks for that. Amazon had Dream of Venus for $15, Cuckolds for $5.95 and 50 Secrets for $9.71!!!! (Cuckolds and Secrets are a combo buy).