Hehehehehe - well, since I was probably a "dude" in a prior life that would be befitting. In this life, I am a female and have a real, right-leaning, US loving, veteran service member male in my life. I don't marvel the female bod. Lesbos don't do it for me.
I do have a male kitty cat who shares the name "Raffus", but he is my Raffman.
;)