I'm so surprised by the few direct answers I've gotten to the question.
Hildy I recall being bashed by you over the Smart case.
If I recall correct ( not verbatim) you said you would rather hang with transients like those employed by Smart family over those of us FReepers who said we would never let transients work in our house near our kids.
I just fed my 88 year old mother who has had Alzheimer's for 10 years. I then gave her water. If somebody doesn't feed her, she would starve. That will never happen in my liftime.
I don't know if she recognizes me or not. It doesn't matter because I know who she is.