Note, just joined FR today and first post sounds like is lost and may be looking for DU - just make a hard left and you will find it.
By the way, homosexual marriage hurts my marriage because homosexual marriage is not sanctioned by God. Therefore, trying to equate a sinful, unsanctified "marriage" with my sanctified one diminishes my marriage, especially in the eyes of God.
(God is gonna ZOT you if you don't watch out!)