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I am at my lowest low
socialistworker.com ^ | January 7, 2005

Posted on 01/05/2005 7:28:24 PM PST by Ellesu

We live in a society where cash comes before being human

Dear Socialist Worker, I am a single woman, currently unemployed, with a home-based business that is barely bringing in any income. I have always supported myself by working in nightclub industries as a promoter and makeup artist, and writing resumes (my business).

In September, when I was about five-and-a-half months pregnant, I could no longer work in the nightclub industry, which was 90 percent of my income and allowed me to afford my rent and pay most of my bills. I tried to look for a job, but a lot of places would not hire me because of my pregnancy.

I fell three months behind on my rent--about $3,300. I have lived in my apartment for seven-and-a-half years and have always paid the rent. My landlord recently gave me an eviction letter asking me to come up with the money or leave in three days. I wrote a letter explaining that I was due to give birth and, as of January 1, would be back to work and caught up.

I explained and apologized for any inconvenience that I may have caused. But he and his lawyer went ahead and started the eviction process.

I am at my lowest low. I cry every night because I have no support. The social service people said they will not provide any rental assistance because my rent is too high. But my rent is standard for a New York City apartment in a decent neighborhood.

I just can’t believe that in this country, there are people made homeless everyday, and that the law will allow a landlord or a judge or a lawyer to evict a pregnant woman and contribute to homelessness.

I could understand if I was working and refusing to pay rent. Then I would think that was the right action to take on his part. But I am showing an effort to pay, and I have a good reason.

It is sad that we live in a society where cash comes before being human. It is sad that we live in society that contributes to homelessness because someone has suffered a financial crisis or major setback.

I have called every charity in my area. Most of them tell me they have no funds or don’t provide funds. I called a lawyer to assist me in court. I explained that I am getting evicted, and all he could say to me is “I could represent you for $600.” I just told this man that I am being evicted--that means I have no money.

I was not able to afford an attorney, and the landlord got the upper hand. I was given the “choice” of coming up with almost $6,000 by February 28--that will include January and February rent and the back rent I owe. I have to start making a payment in the next 20 days of $500. If I am a day late, they will send the marshal to evict me. So, I am basically still in the same position.

I have been to the charities that I was told to go to. A lot of them say there is no money. The Salvation Army said they could only give me $600, but that is only if I could show them proof that I can come up with the rest. I tried to get a one-shot deal, but they said I needed to have a job to qualify to show how I will pay them back. If I had money and a job I would not be going to them! They made no sense.

We have billions to use for war, but no help or funds for individuals in need. It is sad that we call ourselves the richest country in the world. We are the poorest, because of our poor sense of humanity. Anonymous, New York City


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1 posted on 01/05/2005 7:28:25 PM PST by Ellesu
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To: Ellesu

Usually when one posts they also include a commentary.

So. . .what is the point of your post?


2 posted on 01/05/2005 7:31:15 PM PST by Gunrunner2
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To: Ellesu

Well, gee, I'm sure the charitable folks at Socialist Worker will rush to her aid...


3 posted on 01/05/2005 7:31:24 PM PST by MisterRepublican ("I must go. I must be elusive.")
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To: Ellesu
She's asking everyone to help but the father. Are they both unemployed?
4 posted on 01/05/2005 7:31:53 PM PST by CindyDawg
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To: Ellesu

The life I chose is difficult and I want everyone else to fund it.


5 posted on 01/05/2005 7:32:01 PM PST by mlmr (The Twelveth Day of Christmas is January 6...Merry Christmas!)
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To: Ellesu

Sounds like this ananomous writer needs to hit up for cash the guy whom knocked her up ;) Time to cough up some child support.


6 posted on 01/05/2005 7:32:01 PM PST by 1FASTGLOCK45
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To: Ellesu
How is asking the Socialist Worker going to solve her problem? We do not now, now will likely ever live in Socialist paradise.

Several questions come to mind. No savings acccount or emergency funds?
Where is the childs father?

Does the word "family" ring a bell?

7 posted on 01/05/2005 7:32:21 PM PST by Publius6961 (The most abundant things in the universe are hydrogen and stupidity.)
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To: Ellesu

You have your priorities all screwed up honey. You made a choice and got pregnant. Now you want to put your stuff off on others.

Sorry. I'm not buying in.


8 posted on 01/05/2005 7:32:53 PM PST by Bobibutu
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To: Ellesu
Let me understand this....You pay $1,100 a month in rent? And you want ME to subsidize this? This is from the onion right?
9 posted on 01/05/2005 7:33:09 PM PST by Drango (A liberal's compassion is limited only by the size of someone else's wallet.)
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To: Ellesu

What a loser! Why doesn't she hit the father of her child up for a little help? Of course, he probably doesn't care that the mother of his child is on the verge of homelessness, which doesn't say much for her ability to pick sex partners.


10 posted on 01/05/2005 7:33:17 PM PST by Trailerpark Badass
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To: Ellesu

No one is poor in America. As long as this little missy lives in the USA, she'll have opportunities.


11 posted on 01/05/2005 7:33:42 PM PST by cyborg (http://mentalmumblings.blogspot.com/)
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But I am showing an effort to pay
Draw up a note, have it notarized stating that you are making an effort. That way the owner (you know the guy who risked his wealth to build your apartment), can take that to the bank when his note is due, making a copy of course, to send to the IRS when his taxes are due. Maybe even to the grocery store when he attempts to feed his children.
12 posted on 01/05/2005 7:33:43 PM PST by GrandEagle
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To: Ellesu
There was an article posted about a couple who was able to have their eviction postponed for a loooooooong time by going thru bankruptcy. Might buy you some time...?
13 posted on 01/05/2005 7:33:44 PM PST by SouthernFreebird
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To: Ellesu

So where do you think the father of the baby is?

Oh, I'm sorry that might make someone be accountable for their actions.


14 posted on 01/05/2005 7:34:08 PM PST by notpoliticallycorewrecked
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To: Gunrunner2

And the father is where?


15 posted on 01/05/2005 7:34:45 PM PST by G Larry (Admiral James Woolsey as National Intelligence Director)
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To: Ellesu


Immaculate Conception?


17 posted on 01/05/2005 7:34:56 PM PST by GOP_Proud (Those who proclaim tolerance have the least for my views.)
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To: Ellesu

Are you telling me that NYC doesn't have laws protecting pregnant women from being fired because of pregnancy? (ditto to the folks who wouldn't hire her) She is not covered by unemployment insurance? What kind of night club is this? Why was she lying with man without bond of matrimony when this was a foreseeable result? What is she-- a so-called exotic dancer??


18 posted on 01/05/2005 7:35:09 PM PST by sittnick (There's no salvation in politics.)
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To: Ellesu

Get thee to a nunnery. Find a needy adoptive couple, and they will care for you clothe and feed for a chance to love and raise your child.


19 posted on 01/05/2005 7:35:30 PM PST by hispanarepublicana (Miss Free Republic High School-198?)
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To: Ellesu

Ask the baby's daddy


20 posted on 01/05/2005 7:36:00 PM PST by Figment (Ich bin ein Jesuslander)
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