Then you should know that what a person says about him/herself is not what counts.
Mat 7:16 Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?
Conversely, we would be better off ignoring the posts of posters whose conduct would be characterized as hateful, angry, anxious, impatient, rough, mean, fickle, proud or impulsive.