"Fairy tales, can come true, it can happen to you, if you're young at heart"
Jimminy Crickets, that may be the most corny thing I have ever posted. But then, I tend to think in song. Another one that pops into my head is
"And here's another clue for you all, the walrus was Paul, look into a glass onion"
I look into my glass onion, and I see that if many of those in the flame wars that overwhelm the real discussion would stand down as I suggested, then those causing problems would stand out like a sore thumb.
And those who stick out like a sore thumb tend to get noticed, albeit perhaps not as they would wish.