I don't care if my child begged for it. He supplies drugs, he's toast.
And if this 19-year-old "kid" has sex with your 11-year-old because she "asked for it", you would give your daughter a stern talking to and let his parents deal with him.
Don't look for a card from me this Sunday.
Bad analogy. A 19 year old is an adult -- his parents don't have legal control over him. But for the sake of argument, if a 17 year old boy had consensual sex with my young daughter, I would NOT beat the shit out of him (although I'd be pissed as hell). Why wouldn't I? Because it's against the law, and I'd probably be thrown in the slam. I'd read him - BOTH of them - the riot act, and I'd call his parents and do the same. What else can one really do?