Sorry, but reality is what matters, not feel-good beliefs we imagine for ourselves.
As to hell...remember that once created, you will never cease to exist. The nature of existence, due to our sin, is in two steps: life in this world, and life in the spirit world. You set the course yourself. There is one road that leads to heaven, which is narrow; and then there are all the other roads, which lead to hell. If you have chosen to follow one of the broad roads that lead to hell, then you cannot charge God with error when you end up there.