Do you really think these people listen to what others tell them when they have their lives so figured out?
Honestly? I don't think any of us have it figured out completely. I believe that the marriage, the relationship after the committment is much more important than things that happened prior. As someone in the 32nd year of a strong, happy marriage, I can tell you I didn't arrive at the alter as someone who "saved" myself. I don't know whether things would have been better or worse had I. I just know happiness is not a one size fits all proposition. But let's see if we can agree on some things.
1. The only proper adult response to these middle school children is abstinence. They are simply not mature enough to comprehend anything else.
2. Bill Clinton bears some responsibility for this, but he'll never admit that.
3. The Democratic Party in their attempt to retain power bears some responsibility. They too will never admit as much. (Do you find it ironic that Bill's defense against perjury is that it wasn't sex and the Democrat's defense of Bill was that it was only sex?)