[yendu bwam]

Perhaps you should compare your definition of slut with that of those you claim aren't interested. You may find some find those you think slutty quite acceptable to many marriage minded men.

I'm sure that's true. But I do know for a fact that there are many, many men who don't want used goods for their wives. To each his own, I guess. As I said in the previous post, I'm very grateful and touched that my wife was a virgin when we married. It's something that means a lot to me, as it should.

[galt-jw]

i know what we should do....lets make a huge issue out of sex, and then feel superior because sex is made a huge issue over which we feel superiority.

that said, this topic is contentious enough for adults. middle schoolers who have been introduced to this behavior is another issue entirely.

[laredo44]

To each his own, I guess. As I said in the previous post, I'm very grateful and touched that my wife was a virgin when we married. It's something that means a lot to me, as it should.

To each his own indeed. That you have what you want and need is a wonderful thing. Far more important that a couple share a good life together than how they got together in the first place. This is infinitely more true when there are children involved. I wish you the best.