That's why I love FreeRepublic. I can't expect to be able to back up my opinions and become a better debater if I don't try my hand at debating.
So you're young. Big deal!
At least you have the courage to meet these issues directly; something surely lacking in the hackneyed attacks on your personal morality and dignity.
Ignore the gossipy old prudes; if they were sincere, they would do something about the entrenched depravity of school and church authorities. But they lack the moral courage for that--it's more fun to pick on a trusting teenager.
I'm sure that's a principle that is extended through more than one element of their lives.