[JediGirl]

I think men on average are rightly suspicious of women committing to them for life when such women have had many 'committed' and sexual relationships previously (and vice versa as well). And as for your family's raising you with abstinence stressed, it's still obvious that you yourself do not share that value, and that we don't.

Lack of virginity does not imply promiscuity...BROKEN RECORD. it does not imply that a woman has had sex with 30 men......... And I do not share that value, although I once did.

[yendu bwam]

Lack of virginity does not imply promiscuity...BROKEN RECORD. it does not imply that a woman has had sex with 30 men.........

Well, let's see... 3 months divided into one year times 10 years = 40

[Campion]

it does not imply that a woman has had sex with 30 men

So if a girl loses her virginity at 14 (because, you know, teenagers are going to have sex no matter what), and waits until she knows a guy for say, 3 months before sleeping with him, and meets her future husband at 28 ... how many guys would you say she's "cared deeply for"? On average, I mean?