I love how the religious right puts words in other's mouths. I never at once said I'd tell my daughter to sleep around and such a response is worthy of being called pathetic. I would tell my daughter that I would prefer she be safe if she is going to have sex. That I would want her to be in a relationship for more than 3 months before going ahead with such a big step in a relationship. To be sure that she truly cares for this person, because she is giving herself to him.
Ok, three months is the minimum you would like for her to wait before giving herself to a boy. Is there a specific location that you prefer for her to be for making love with her boyfriend? Anyway,at least, you are not saying two or three dates.
Wow, a whole three months!!! Nope, that wouldn't be sleeping around at all.
Why 3 months? What's the difference between 3 and 4 months? or just 2 months, for that matter? I knew more than one girl in HS that was pretty hurt the day she finally put out for that guy she thought really cared about her.
I realize you are very young, JediGirl, so I feel like I can tell you that there is truly no such thing as "safe sex". It's a myth. Oh, you may start out with hand-jobs and condoms, but pretty soon, a girl will get talked into the real deal. Once you start, it's hard to stop and you can rationalize and justify all sorts of behaviors.