This is an interesting concept.
It has been explained to me how much the dating scene has changed with the social media apps and it is incredible. People will stack dates. Ladies will schedule dates just for the dinner.
Dudes order dates like pizza on these apps.
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Also, Youtube and Rumble creator Better Bachelor, listed some of the metrics from Tinder on an episode, and it was about one in 100 swipes for men to get a match, and about one in 100 matches to get a date. So, you have about a one in 10,000 chance to get anywhere. From personal experience I didn’t have much luck, not many second dates, so I just walked away and started working on me.
Something I’d tell any kid in his twenties contemplating dating: Work on yourself be the best person you can, and find happiness being single. Make sure your hygiene and grooming are on point, and build confidence. Stay off the damn apps. Cold approach is king; you’ll know if you have chemistry or interest, or get shot down on the spot, no more of the match, message, meet, and it’s a dud crap.
My friend showed me some stats, and it isn’t like that at all. Women who were grouped into the “least attractive” percentile got as many or more responses than the “most attractive” group of men.