I have a friend (female) looking and she learned about breadcrumbing. One guy she dated would text her Saturday afternoon and ask if she could come over. What she didn’t know was he also texted 5 or 6 others women the same suggestion. First to reply won! The rest were left out wondering what happened. They replied too late or with the wrong answer like “let’s do next Friday for dinner...”
it’s a brave new world ladies.....
“Exactly, women do not understand that after 30, women are no longer in demand.”
A twenty year old girl can have her pick of guys 20-30. If she looks at guys 25-30, then she’s likely to find someone ready to think about marriage and having a stable job.
A 32 year old woman is looking at a dating pool of 32-45 guys, and they either got burned in divorce or have decided that married life is not for them.
“What she didn’t know was he also texted 5 or 6 others women the same suggestion. First to reply won! The rest were left out wondering what happened. They replied too late or with the wrong answer like “let’s do next Friday for dinner..”
As a man this sounds exhausting. Does he have to communicate all week with each of them? Or is it just “wanna hook up?”
Maybe it's that divorced men have adjusted to living with half of the assets they had when they were married, and are more focused on growing the nest egg that remains?
What is the saying, "once bitten, twice shy?"
-PJ