Men obsessed with body-building are the male equivalent of women with an eating disorder. And, like body-obsessed women, they almost always lie about what they eat and what they do to maintain their appearance. Ridiculously bulked-up men are no more attractive to most women than anorexic women are to normal men.
It is thought, with bodybuilders, women are making their selection on the trouble of having to cook for three men to feed one guy.
I also found on a divorce site a poll that suggests the most attractive man to a woman is a man with a soft look to him.