Dear Abby, I was snooping in my husbands car and found box of lingerie
I confronted him after I did not get it for my birthday
He said he was gender fluid and he secretly wanted to be a lesbian who was in a gay marriage to me and the lingerie was for him.
I asked him to put it on for me, but he said it did not fit and so he donated it.
Should I tell him about my girlfriend?