I made this comment to my wife years ago after it seemed like she had checked out on the more intimate aspects of our relationship. You put your hands on the dirty dishes the garbage the toilet, but you won’t put your hands on me? I understand that you might not want to do it, but you likewise don’t want to put your hands on the garbage either do you? If you don’t think women create situations that lead to adultery you haven’t been around long enough.
Comparing yourself to the trash or the toilet doesn’t sound like a good idea to me, but I understand what you were getting at.
To me, this needs to be a two-way street in a relationship, especially in marriage. A proper couple should looks after each other in all sorts of ways. They are life partners, for goodness sakes.
See my later post. You are correct.