“I’m a female who worked in uniform for 25 years as an officer, and Sergeant in NY State’s prison system.”
You carry the baggage of the well known corruption of prison guards. So much contraband comes into the prisons, not by magic, by corrupt guards.
And you would know this because....???
That’s quite a spurious accusation to make against another FReeper.
On what basis do you slander her good name? Mere innuendo? Guilt by association?
I realize backroom threads are more rough and tumble but this is inexcusable.
And LOLing it off does not make it a joke. It’s simply bully tactics to avoid taking responsibility for wrong behavior. It does not make it a joke just because you laugh it off.
You owe her an apology at the very least.