Two husbands and going on a third? Doesn’t sound like anyone should take advice from you. No offense. You can live your life like you want, but ...
My 1st marriage lasted 20 years-my husband’s mid life crisis resisted all attempts at reconciliation and counseling-he had been entrapped by a much younger woman-one of the type we have been disparaging here-so was I supposed to shoot him to keep him from leaving? I don’t believe in making another’s decisions for them. He was dead just a few years later-killed by his new girlfriend’s husband.
My dearest MrT5 died an untimely death after 16 years of marriage-it was not supposed to happen. Am I supposed to mourn him for the rest of my life? Or perhaps I should have flung myself on his funeral pyre, suttee fashion like some women in India do, rather than meet another man to share a life together with-I don’t see it that way-I guess you can just call me black widow...