What I'm saying is that you call it co-alpha equality, but in realty you're the one making the rules he has to follow.
In return, I'm positing that for me, a guy I have to make the rules for wouldn't hold my interest.
But to each his own. Always enjoy our discussions.
As do I-if we all thought exactly alike, this would be a very boring forum...
After all, one size does not fit all-goes for relationships, too.