Oh, that’s too bad! But it seems your second husband is a prize. I’m my husband’s second wife. My husband has never, ever spoken ill of his first wife - he considers it low class and common.
There are two threads up at the moment: one of a husband murdering his wife and one about an Indian immigrant arrested for beating his wife (disciplining her as they say here). Then the sour guys wonder why some women divorce! Yeah, usually before the guy reaches for the gun, knife or poison!
Fun talking to you.
My 2nd hubby-MrT5-was a prize-he never spoke badly of his 1st wife, even though it was a bitter end, and he was awarded full custody of the kids. He died untimely several years ago-my current guy-the LEO-was my fiancé in college, but we were young and stupid and screwed it up-we are both single again-so a few months ago, we decided to have another go at it and get it right this time-so far, so good-neither of us is inclined to get totally angry with the other-I have a Latin temper he respects and I respect that he gets paid for investigating evidence-he certainly wouldn’t leave any-I’d end up in an unmarked grave somewhere...
A couple of people who have never liked me warned my guy that he was going out with a black widow-2 deceased husbands, and did he want to be #3-he just laughed it off, God bless him...