>>>Are there any decent college men who can show them there is another way to relate, or are they all in the same boat?<<<
Modern porn has fundamentally changed things. I saw this guy explaining how HD porn videos have changed men’s behavior. The old playboys didn’t do to the brain what HD video does. Further, the fact that you can click a new video one or two minutes later is pumping your brain full of dopamine. Later in the video he talked about this thing called “no fap”. Guys giving up internet porn and wanking to it. One poster on a no fap forum said he felt all strange when he saw a pretty girl. Per that guy’s description he was describing his heart fluttering. Modern porn use is causing that relationship dynamic to disappear.
Gay Wilson wrote a book called Your Brain on Porn. You can watch an interview with the Canadian Youtube philosopher Stefan Molyneux here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mhqx7yctQVk
Your 100% correct. Porn has screwed men up to the point they’d rather wank than deal with women. On the other hand divorce porn (fireproof, lifetime, etc) has warped women’s sense of reality.
I think you watch too much porn. You’ve been warped.
This is very interesting. Thanks for posting. BTW, what does “fap” mean?