So the woman is thinking, “I am rebellious and doing this until a better guys comes around. Some day I will stop doing this and find a new man. And not tell him that I did this. Or tell him and he BETTER be ok with it because I am liberated and women are allowed to be big sluts just like men. This sucks but everyone does it and men do it so I can do it, too. It’s only fair.”
The man is thinking, “Sex.”
The ultimate outcome for each of them is likely to be a lot better for the man.
a good man would avoid that trainwreck