1. Fear of or contempt for lesbians and gay men.
2. Behavior based on such a feeling.
I do not fear them or their sycophants, I do not alter my behavior because of them, although I have never been around you personally. So I don't fit the definition.
At first I thought you were making words up again, but sure enough there is a definition for “homophobian”:
A closeted homosexual who makes fun of homos to mask his or her own homosexuality. Homophobians like to use the words fag, faggot, gay, queer, homo, and other funny words.
Yep, that’s you alright.