You’re the one who is confused. There’s a difference between going away and just saying that you’re somewhere else now without actually moving an inch.
Nooooo, you're the one that's confused.
You and the rest of the damn yankee coven are stuck on the notion that you can't make a fresh start without physically moving.
That's like saying that ho-tep can't change his pathetic life unless he calls Mayflower and moves him and his worthless crap to another location. It's absurd.
You are aware that a rotted stump is more intelligent than the mope you’re talking to, right?