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I’m going to clarify this one more time. There is a person on this site who posted to me for close to a yr w’out getting any reply from me at all. [Nor, needless to say, did I ever post to him. Perish the thought.] Almost ever single one of his posts to me was an insult.

It became an obsession w him. It got to where I couldn’t post anything at all w’out this individual responding w vile, gratuitous insults. At one time JR had advised to ignore this type of behavior. I did that, & it only revved this individual up more & more

Over time the insults became more frequent & increasingly disgusting. At that point it was stalking pure & simple. I appealed to JR for relief. I received it, to a degree. The obsessed individual is still posting to me; he just tries to do it indirectly. Note that I never post to him. He remains obsessed w my comments, however, & cannot seem to ignore anything I say.

It’s weird, anti-social behavior. I guess as long as he refrains from posting to me directly there’s nothing I can do. I wish it were otherwise, but an obsession is an obsession, & it sadly doesn’t look like this one is going away.

I’m going to clarify this one more time. There is a person on this site who posted to me for close to a yr w’out getting any reply from me at all. [Nor, needless to say, did I ever post to him. Perish the thought.]

I wonder who it's talking about? I'm almost positive it was me earlier, or maybe I misread the earlier post about the stalker.

Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Fantasywriter to Brown Deer:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2544087/replies?c=53
www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2544087/replies?c=55
www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2544087/replies?c=58
www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2544087/replies?c=73 (no reply from me)

Friday, January 14, 2011
Fantasywriter to Brown Deer:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/bloggers/2656304/posts?page=434#434 (no replys)

Sunday, February 27, 2011
Fantasywriter to Brown Deer:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/bloggers/2678076/replies?c=300 (no reply from me)

Wednesday, March 02, 2011
Fantasywriter to Brown Deer:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2681936/replies?c=171 (no reply from me)

Thursday, March 03, 2011
Fantasywriter to Brown Deer:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/bloggers/2682498/replies?c=130 (no reply from me)

Saturday, March 12, 2011
Brown Deer to Fantasywriter:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2687477/replies?c=55 (with reply from Fantasywriter)

Monday, March 28, 2011
Brown Deer to Fantasywriter:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2695557/replies?c=417 (with reply from Fantasywriter)

Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Brown Deer to Fantasywriter:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2696460/replies?c=425 (with reply from Fantasywriter)

Friday, April 15, 2011
Brown Deer to Fantasywriter:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2704312/replies?c=225 (with thanks and appreciation from Fantasywriter)
www.freerepublic.com/focus/chat/2703636/replies?c=151 (with reply from fantasywriter)

Thursday, April 28, 2011
Fantasywriter to Brown Deer:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/bloggers/2711393/posts?page=78#78

Saturday, April 30, 2011
Fantasywriter to Brown Deer:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/bloggers/2702976/replies?c=1964 (no reply from me)

Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Fantasywriter to Brown Deer:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/bloggers/2717548/replies?c=103

Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Brown Deer to Fantasywriter:
www.freerepublic.com/focus/bloggers/2717548/replies?c=270 (with reply from Fantasywriter)

At that point it was stalking pure & simple.

As best I can tell, this is the last post I ever made to the person who started stalking me [prior to the post a couple of days ago when I advised him that I’d reported his compulsive behavior & requested relief from it]:

“Now you’re calling me a liar. I am disgusted. You are not the person I thought you were. I had considered you a friend. Friends don’t treat friends this way.”

128 posted on Friday, June 15, 2012 2:42:39 AM by Fantasywriter

Notice (1) the post is from almost a yr ago, & (2) I wrote that I had in the past considered him a friend. In fact, when he was banned I spearheaded the effort to request JR to reinstate him. [& he’s been repaying my kindness & loyalty ever since.] So it’s hardly odd that he is turning up posts from a long time ago when I did indeed talk back & forth w him. Then he turned on me out of the blue & called me a liar. I stopped responding to him on the spot, & he’s been dogging me & insulting me ever since.

I really hope now that he will just let it go & LEAVE ME ALONE. I’m sick & tired of the whole thing. It’s way past time to move on.

But an obsession is an obsession, & unfortunately it doesn’t look like this one is going away.