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Cleavage: What's Appropriate, What's Not
ABCNews ^ | May 29, 2007 | staff reporter

Posted on 05/30/2007 1:26:52 PM PDT by Daffynition

The weather's getting warmer and necklines are dipping lower -- sometimes, too low.

From the beach to the mall to the office, women seem to be showing off their cleavage more than ever before. Why? According to Elisabeth Squires, author of "Boobs: A Guide to Your Girls," American breasts are getting bigger while shirts are getting smaller.

"We are seeing more cleavage these days for a few reasons. First, the fashion of the day is tight and skinny. At the same time, women are bigger than they were even 15 years ago. Bra fitters tell me that an E cup is the new C cup," Squires said on "Good Morning America."

"We have to remember that while more women are showing more cleavage, you really have to use your breast power responsibly," Squires said.

What's Appropriate When

What looks sexy for a night out on the town may not be appropriate in the workplace. In fact, Squires said cleavage should never make an appearance in the office.

"It's way too big of a distraction for men and women," she said. "If cleavage isn't in your job description, don't put it in."

But that doesn't mean breasts should stay hidden. According to Squires, the appearance of breasts can help women in the workplace.

"A recent study showed men photos of women in a workplace with large breasts showing cleavage, medium breasts and small breasts. When asked about who looked most professional and personable, the men chose the women with medium-sized breasts," she said.

"You don't have to be flat-chested to be taken seriously," she added. "You just have to be proportionate. For women who are small busted, that may mean a little padding. For well-endowed women, that may mean a minimizer."

Squires suggested that women also keep things respectable at family events, like a kids' soccer game.

"This is not the time to show off your girls," she said. "Your children should not have to compete with your cleavage for attention."

Night is prime time to bring out breasts, but Squires suggested women treat their cleavage as part of their outfit -- not a focal point.

"You can certainly be a bit more daring," she said. "This presumably is adult time, and cleavage is powerful. This is the time to use it. But they should be part of your whole look."

Pregnant women are an exception to the rules. Squires said because pregnancy gives breasts a boost they might not have otherwise, women should show them off.

"During pregnancy you should celebrate your breasts. For some women, that's the only time they have cleavage," she said. "Obviously you don't want to go nuts. But cleavage on a pregnant woman is just different -- live it up a bit."

Squires said women of a certain age can still show off cleavage, as 61-year-old Helen Mirren proved at the Oscars.

"It has to be integrated into your entire look," she said. "If a woman of a certain age squeezes her girls together, she'll get the wrinkled, crepelike look. That's not good. But if you're older and you wear a scoop neck and you have beautiful, what the French call decollete, that's great."

Tips for Every Woman

Squires offered advice all women can heed to make their breasts look better:

Don't be in bra denial. The average woman changes bra sizes at least seven times in her life. Get fitted and accept your number and cup size.

Think outside the bra. A strong back and shoulders -- good carriage -- makes your whole body look better, including your breasts. Don't concentrate so much on your underwiring. Concentrate on the rest of your body.

Be good to your girls. Breasts are unique, and the truth is that men love them all. Be more accepting of your body. Most women think breasts only come in two sizes: too big or too small. It's not true. They're beautiful; be good to them.


TOPICS: Heated Discussion
KEYWORDS: cleavage; decorum; fashion; modesty; moralabsolutes; professionaldress
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To: taxed2death

Doing my small part to keep this thread ALIVE! ;^)


261 posted on 07/16/2007 10:43:21 AM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: DCPatriot; atomicpossum; dighton; martin_fierro; johnny7; day10; taxed2death; Hemingway's Ghost; ...
I found one of these outfits not appropriate.
262 posted on 09/20/2007 9:09:57 AM PDT by TheThirdRuffian
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To: TheThirdRuffian
OMG!!!

PS: Which one??? ;^)

263 posted on 09/20/2007 9:21:43 AM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: DCPatriot

The one on the left, of course. Shocking lack, in comparison.

(Stumbled across the thread; too good to let die.)


264 posted on 09/20/2007 9:25:14 AM PDT by TheThirdRuffian
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To: Daffynition

What are women suppose to do? What can we look at to stay healthly? ;-D


265 posted on 09/20/2007 9:59:10 AM PDT by Freedom2specul8 (Please pray for our troops.... http://anyservicemember.navy.mil/)
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To: ~Kim4VRWC's~

How about this??? LOL!


266 posted on 09/20/2007 10:01:53 AM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: DCPatriot

I can dig that!! ROFL


267 posted on 09/20/2007 10:03:29 AM PDT by Freedom2specul8 (Please pray for our troops.... http://anyservicemember.navy.mil/)
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To: TheThirdRuffian

wow.


268 posted on 09/20/2007 12:07:32 PM PDT by MeanWestTexan (Kol Hakavod Fred Thompson)
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To: ~Kim4VRWC's~

269 posted on 09/21/2007 3:12:13 AM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: Daffynition; DCPatriot

I’m tellin ya, if you look at post #66, I truly believe your pulse will accelerate and your cardiovascular system will be exercised. This is what I’m thinking the pic does. Gives us a good inside working out, thereby making us women stay ‘younger’. ;-D I’ve already sent that pic to other women, who will definitely appreciate the timeless exercise. heh heh heh


270 posted on 09/21/2007 7:19:26 AM PDT by Freedom2specul8 (Please pray for our troops.... http://anyservicemember.navy.mil/)
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To: ~Kim4VRWC's~
Yep ... it's something to hang your hat on. ;-D


271 posted on 09/21/2007 7:37:01 AM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: ~Kim4VRWC's~

#66 has no photo..... so don’t know what you’re saying.


272 posted on 09/21/2007 8:02:33 AM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: Daffynition

okay, now that just doesn’t “help”.....not enough “mystery” I guess. LOL~


273 posted on 09/21/2007 11:29:48 AM PDT by Freedom2specul8 (Please pray for our troops.... http://anyservicemember.navy.mil/)
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To: DCPatriot; Daffynition
"#66 has no photo..... so don’t know what you’re saying. "

LOL~ Too heated I guess...I meant #266

% ^D

274 posted on 09/21/2007 11:33:09 AM PDT by Freedom2specul8 (Please pray for our troops.... http://anyservicemember.navy.mil/)
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To: ~Kim4VRWC's~; DCPatriot
Geez ... even I figured it out DC ... it was right there ... you shoulda s... oh, never mind. ;-P


275 posted on 09/21/2007 12:48:23 PM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: ~Kim4VRWC's~
#266 and some Red Cross volunteers ... stir slowly.;-D
276 posted on 09/21/2007 12:54:16 PM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: Daffynition

Three guys .........naked ..............together.............with erections.

Can you say “gay”?


277 posted on 09/21/2007 1:11:29 PM PDT by Lee'sGhost (Crom! Non-Sequitur = Pee Wee Herman.)
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To: Daffynition

LOL! And I was the one who sent it to her!


278 posted on 09/21/2007 1:19:58 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: DCPatriot
HAHAHA! I'm going to have to make you a chart to follow! ;-D


279 posted on 09/21/2007 1:27:54 PM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: Lee'sGhost

Naked, in the woods, with erections.

Very, very gay.


280 posted on 09/21/2007 2:49:07 PM PDT by TheThirdRuffian
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