[Oberon]

And women are looking for reasons NOT to sleep with men, while men are looking to justify sleeping with a woman.

Uh, Chuck, I think you may have this exactly backwards. That's just me, though.

[CharlesWayneCT]

I’m guessing it’s just the awkward phrasing. Let’s try again.

Women are looking for any excuse so they don’t have to sleep with a man.

Men are looking for any reason they can find to justify sleeping with a woman.

But it was a stupid thing to say anyway. I don’t know what I was thinking.